I was catching up on threads I'm usually on and RTL said this relating to men and trying to stay connected or not.....
Also, Jack stated that he wouldn't be calling his ex a lot if he just wanted to be friends, and I'd have to agree. Men aren't good at the commitment thing, so the last thing we tend to do if we are trying to leave a relationship is to keep the connection going. We keep it going b/c we don't want it to go away. If we want it gone, we usually just go and don't look back. The male is wired quite a bit differently than the female in that regard......
Maybe it's an emotional day today, but that hit me badly. H doesn't try to make much contact with me. So maybe he's just done and this isn't MLC at all? I'd have asked this on the thread it was on, but it locked.
