Don't ask her at all about if she watched the video. If it does anything to her she will let you know. Second, I like the concept of your lists. Good points to them. Third, if she sees the therapist about the EA, great! If not, you can't force her hand and you know you don't want to because it will be viewed as pressuring. It is good though to be able to spill your beans to someone that will listen and is non-judgemental isn't it?
