Sorry you are having a weird day. I hope tonight proves to be a nice distraction and allows you a period of time to relax and recharge.
There is no way to know why/what he is hedging about. It may be something stupid and not worth lying about, but for whatever reason he doesn't feel like he can tell you the truth. Or it could be something big. Only he knows.
As for the note, it is weird that it is heart-shaped, but H had no control over that. He doesn't seem to be trying to hide it, so that's one check in the innocent column.
Your H was out of the house for a long time. It's a hard adjustment to living together. I'm sure things will be very difficult just by virtue of that even without all the other crap.
Enjoy your weekend and take a mental break so that you can be refreshed when you get back.
(((((GF)))))
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2