I understand the limbo thing. I don't know if things are harder or easier when WS is still home as mine is. Either way, it sounds like they both (yours and mine) have the best of both worlds. Trying to be single or at least the time spent with OP, and enjoying the great family time together. It's because we allow it. With a purpose in mind, but still, we allow it. I have to always reconcile that in my mind. Is it right or wrong. If we get back together, it was a hell of a plan. If we don't, what a stupid plan it was.


Me 47, WW 38
SS18, D15, D10

Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08

"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."