Everything, with very few exceptions, sounds like what my wife has either said to me or has shown by her actions. She is just not at the place of wanting to try, yet. I know that she is completly torn inside, but just can't seem to help herself. She tells me what a good person I am, that I deserve better than her and I have a feeling that she has expressed this to OM, also. She told me once that OM told her that she will probabley end up back with me. Why would he tell her that? All the things that you written here is the same as my wife. Nearly verbatim (sp). I heard but I did not listen. And yes, it took this for me to come around. I am very interested to see how you do. I can tell you struggle with yourself. Things are easier said than done. It is an addiction.
Who was initiating you divorce? You or your spouse. What was it that finally made you come to the conclusion of wanting to try again?
Me 47, WW 38 SS18, D15, D10
Good Bye Girl. No longer SAYING she's moving out. GBG moved out 8-1-08
"I have now decided to enjoy life instead of figure it out."
