BE STILL, QUIET, PATIENT, AND DARK

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Imagine his reaction to what he looks like when he finally gets a grip on his reality.

"Holy [censored] I'm an ass"

He will be embarrassed, humiliated, shocked, etc...

What and how can you be to make him feel comfortable to come back to your home??????? Are you doing this? Do your actions speak louder than your words? They look for actions, not words. They don't hear your words.

Do they see softness in your eyes? Do they see God in your life? Do they see forgiveness? Do they see stength? Are they
seeing you stand for your marriage? Are they seeing you be the best person you can be? Are you not pursuing. They hate pursuing. They see this as control.

We all know what we are not suppose to do. It is easier said than done, right? Keep reminding yourselves that the more we follow the above, the more the chances of our spouses returning. Do I know this as a fact, no. It makes sense though.
I wish all of you strength to do this and the patience it takes to wait for their return.

God Bless.......

Trusting,

Wow. This is an awesome post. I need to print this out and carry it around with me.

Thank you.