I think she's back

[hopeful4her]

It sounds like your sitch is very hopeful. The thing I would say is, like Puppy has pointed out many times, WW are liars. Actions, not words. The words are great to hear. I might have a stroke the day that I heard ILY from WW again. Very encouraging, but you still have to have your rules on reconciliation. Getting back into the bedroom might be a good show of trust on your part, but only on your timeline. When your ready.

The appearance of being motherly to him is going to be tricky, as he had an issue with this before. But he has to understand that it is going to be temporary to rebuild trust. Communicate this in a loving way to him. He should not have any problem with it. Transparency as much as possible, but you know that if they are going to do something, they will find a way.