That is a fantastic question. Last night we had a really really good long talk...until I found out that she has been seeing a fella in the town she works in. She has been spending a crazy amount of time on her facebook account and I got a little snoopy last night...and well there were messages back and forth between her and her friend about the guy she has been seeing...who apparently has not been returning her calls or texts.
I told her that she can't continue doing this to me and she told me she didn't think she could stop. I packed some cloths and I intend to spend some time at my friends house. While I was packing she tried to stop me from leaving. I do not understand her at all. It is terribly frustrating! I am pretty convinced she does not see what she is doing wrong. I told her she needs to see a therapist for obvious commitment issues and she disagreed.
This marks about the 5th time I have found evidence of hidden emails and messages from her to another man in the last 5 years. It seems she constantly needs another man in her life besides me. I have had about enough...I don't feel as if I deserve this. I have not been a perfect husband but I have never done anything of this magnitude to her and certainly nothing to warrant this treatment.
It kills me to leave my house and my family, but I don't see any other course of action right now.
