It's great that these younger friends are so supportive and "get" that 1 yr out of 20yr M is not "too long" to DB, to heal, to transition. It astounds me that anyone can just turn away like M never happened. That level of disconnect is so hard to accept on a personal level. Seeing how you have progressed emotionally over the past year and your increasing self worth are good affirmations. To my way of thinking, I can at least get some good out of all this by learning and growing as a person. Sounds like that is working in your life. . . .
me: 47 H: 48 he has 2 grown sons M 1995(my 1st, his 3rd) hit iceberg 6/07 S 9/26/07 before now