Well, Lwb, at least you're given the occasional option of "ML". I get and am only going to get absolutely nothing from my S, not so much as a hug anymore.
I swear that's one way you LBW (left-behind wives) have it so much easier than we LBH (left-behind husbands). A wayward H is still a guy, and often willing to relax his stance, hold a temporary truce, just to seek out another source of "satisfaction." In contrast, these wayward W tend to shut it all off for the LBH -- no way in h*ll are they going to give their poor H even the opportunity to find that sort of comfort with them.
As such that is one way the LBW is so much better at rebuilding intimacy with their spouse than the LBH is. Guys are so much easier.
