this probably sounds sick and demented, but i have a calendar of all our conversations and no conversations - when he saw our daughter since january 08. so glancing down i have not contacted him in any way shape or form for 37 days saturday. he has left a voice mail of our song and my niece that lives across the street caught him driving by on monday.
since you were the WAS - during that time did you think of your H? miss him? wonder what he was doing? kill you not to talk to him? I'm trying to understand how he can stay away from his D. i know there is no one answer to fit, but how long till he rids himself of all the anger. i'm happy to see that there are couples on here that have begun that journey together to reconcile, it gives me hope.
He thinks you are seeing someone else and is starting to get curious, I would bet anything that is the case. Keep it up!
