Well there was actually a big blow up in Sept. then things calmed down. She had been in and out of our bed between Sept and Dec. but mostly in our bed. There was a small blow up in Dec, just before Xmas...she had said that she was taking our D to her parents in NC for Xmas and insinuated that my family would not have much time with my D. Her family had my D for all of Thanksgiving week at Disney and I let her know that they were not going to have Xmas week also. This lead to a fight and her moving downstairs..that is the significance of Dec. Her moving downstairs again--It hit me, if I don't change then we are not going to make it. GL did you see my response about the A?? What else can I do besides PI?
