I have to say I am not being affected because I have had things going on that are taking up my time--end of year school activities, etc.

I choose to do these things and have a good time while H is elsewhere self-medicating. I know he is miserable, he told me so Monday night.

He has to get through this on his own.

He was so used to coming over, eating, etc. and now it will take him sometime before he can feel comfortable doing that again.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19