As my H likes to say: it is much easier to continue in an adulterous lifestyle than it is to face the reality and harm this has done to those they love because it is so very hard to deal with.
SF, I am not so sure. I think the really hard part for them is facing all the demons that caused them to behave that way in the first place. That is the super scary place for them. The hurt and destruction they caused to others is great, but pales in comparison. It takes a back seat. But, yes, eventually it must be addressed, as well.
Holly, Hang in there.
Hugs,
Spitty
Yes, that is true and now I know because my H is living with those demons as I write this and cannot face us at all (again!).
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
