But as with all of us here, we only read about one person's side of the story.
We don't hear the other person's side.
I do not know his wife, I do not know BT.
But I am a Mother and I was Married to a MLC'er.
I know that things happen, sometimes we lose control, we do things we regret, we act impulsively.
I know I have not abused my chidren, but I also know at times I could have been pushed over the edge when I was very stressed out and was lacking sleep.
I have at times had to go take a walk, or go outside and have a cigarette just to cool off.
I am human, I do not have as much patience as I would like.
I also have alot of children, and believe me, as much as I try to keep things in order, it doesn't always work out that way.
With all due respect to BT, I do not believe that if his wife was a chronic abuser that he would have tolerated it during the Marriage....and if he did, then shame on him.
In regards to your other comment, BT hasn't accepted that he has had a part to play in the demise of his Marriage.
The letter he found from his MIL was very telling.
There had been problems for years.
He still doesn't believe he needs to change.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
