The point I was trying (not very well)to make on the first post you mentioned was… when I read BT posts about his W, he sounds very bitter and angry. He is full of all of his wives bad points. He has also previously mentioned that she has an anger disorder, drinks too much and maybe bi-polar. Basically, I was saying to him if she is as bad as you say *WHY* do you want to be with her?
WHY?
What is good about her?
BT doesn’t seem to have made an effort to look at his own shortcomings. He is often talking about how other women find him attractive and talk positively about him. He has mentioned dating etc.
He doesn’t strike me as someone trying to nurture and support a W in MLC. It sounds as if he is trying to demonise her.
He needs to give his wife some space and work on himself instead of continually putting her down.
Nutty.
Be The Greener Grass.
Me 40 H 42 Son 11 Married 15 years. Left May 2006 after gambling spree I had EA August 2006 OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!) I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.
