Nice to see you again but wish the circumstances were a bit better.
BUT! Piecing IS hard. Sometimes I feel it would have been easier to get a D, but I carry on.
I agree with Rob's question but would put it slightly differently - What are YOU going to do and what is your H going to do to move forward from this spot?
The sex ... if you're not happy with your H wanting you to be a bit more daring you need to say so, but in a loving way.Maybe suggest you go a little slower.
And backsliding from GAL and making yourself happy - I have been guilty of this of late, it's easy to do. But a healthy R needs that bit of slack where each partner can do things apart but then come back together, refreshed. My M certainly needs that, it helps a great deal when I look at making my own happiness rather than basing it on H's actions.
Liz - I am glad you've posted. Keep doing so. I do as sometimes I need to be led back on track.
Bomb (ILYBINILWY, don't want to be married)Sept05 Seperated Sept/Oct 05 Oct 06 - H recomitted July 11 - I am now a WAW.
