You are doing an amazing job. Just let her continue to set the pace, even though at times it will push your buttons. There is so much change and it is all so positive. Keep working on forgiveness, honestly, if she is in MLC you will need all of the love and patience you can muster to ride out this journey with her. (((((((hugs))))))))
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.