The pain will bring growth. It is your body’s way of telling you that you need to take extra care of yourself.

You are not burying it, you are feeling it everyday, you are just not inflicting the hurt from your pain on your W.

In time you will realise that being able to control how you deal with your pain will make you stronger.

Vent here, there is some amazing advice and support on this forum.

Nutty.

Be The Greener Grass.


Me 40
H 42
Son 11
Married 15 years.
Left May 2006 after gambling spree
I had EA August 2006
OW Aug 07 after another gambling spree (she will make me happy - stop me gambling!)
I filed for divorce 9th April 2008.