It has been a while since we've communicated and I'm glad I found you again. It took a bit to catch up, but I'm pretty well versed in your sitch now.
I would echo One Day's assessment that H is taking some baby steps back to you. As I've painfully learned, any movement needs to be considered as a positive step in the right direction.
For me, if I get any interaction w/ my W that isn't negative or angry, it is a positive. So for you, the fact that H is reaching out to you has to be a good sign.
The thing that SUCKS about this DBing is the amount of time it takes for any of us to reach our goals of saving our relationships. I can completely understand now why people give up and give in to D, but I won't be one of them and neither will any of us on this board.
Have a great time in New Zealand. I'll look forward to hearing from you when you get back as you'll be recharged and rested and ready to keep fighting forward.
