Things are much the same in my last few posts. Things seem to be improving, but of course never at the pace I would like. Who am I to complain though. Progress is progress. After the bomb he would not only not call me to spend time together, but wouldn't accept my invites. Now he is calling me and seems eager to talk and spend time with me.
I definitely understand that it is difficult to not talk about the relationship. From time to time I still struggle with it. When I feel the urge to speak about the relationship I remind myself that not only will nothing I say improve our relationship or change his mind, but in fact they will most likely have the opposite effect. The more you can stick to DB rules the more progress you make. You can do it.
Posts Role Reversal(original) WAW now LBS part I & II WAW now LBS part III(current) T: 9 yrs M: 8 yrs WAW: Sep 06-Jul 07 LBS: Sep 07-pres.