Good email Addie, I'm sure he is thinking about what you wrote. That's a good thing he has not said anything about it, it tells me is in deep thought about what you said.
Not much that is new. H has not mentioned the email. Last night he came over to be with S while I went to my dance class. I arrived home after 10 p.m. H asked how my class had gone and I said excellent, a lot of fun. I noticed a bottle on the counter that I hadn't seen before. He asked if I'd like him to fix me a drink(alcoholic), that he was going to fix one for himself. We don't normally drink on a weeknight. I sat down (with my drink) to watch a show that I enjoy. H was doing some work at the table and also watching TV. After the show we chit chatted for a few minutes. He continued to work. I said goodnight and asked him to lock up when he leaves. He came into the room after I was in bed and wished me a good sleep.
Today he called twice to ask about something he may have left here yesterday which I didn't come across.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
H came by this evening for a couple of hours. He played catch with S outside. Had some leftovers (we had already eaten). Then said he had to leave as he had some things to do. He's flying out early Sunday for a job interview. Before he left, he came to speak to me in the bedroom. He sat down on our bed looking down most of the time as he spoke. He talked about the uncertainty of his job sitch, the job interview, some goals. He didn't mention anything about us. I mainly listened and validated. He also thanked me for being such a good mother and I thanked him for that. He gave me a long, heartfelt hug and then thanked me again for being a good mother to our S. Then hugged me once again. He said he'd like to come by tomorrow afternoon to play with S again.
Oh, one more thing that H said is that he's been doing a lot of praying too (referring to a book about prayer he saw on my night table). I know he's noticing the changes
Last edited by addie; 04/26/0805:19 AM.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
H called this morning to say he had picked up some things for us at the farmer's market. He'd also like us to go for a walk later because it's such a beautiful day. He's definitely coming around but I know I have to keep my expectations low.
Me47 H46 S13 M16 Piecing since May/09
"Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it." Lou Holtz
