It would be interesting if she snooped her to find that you snooped on her. How could she logically be mad that you snooped as shy would be a hypocrite for snooping on you?

My W knows of this site, but AFAIK has never read any of it. I do know of one excellent poster on here that actually had his second wife D him because of his posts on here and then she remarried him. He still posts very helpful advice on here and stays so that he remembers never to fall back to his old ways.