After 3 long years, H is home

[MichelleLT]

I hope that you have a great weekend. The ladies poker party sounds like a great way to blow off some steam.

As for him asking you to hang out with him...to me that reemphasizes the fact that he doesn't speak your LL. You may have to take the lead, perhaps by offering to go with him (with no expectations though and letting him say no if that's what he needs).

Sounds like it can wait til next week though.