How much longer will her family put up with her living at home and not working? Not much longer, I'd guess.
Not your problem That's her reality.
I am glad you are enjoying the new office and all. You sound like you are in a good place - happy and feeling good about yourself. That's very attractive.
Keep up the good DBing, keep being her friend, and keep the door open.
Michelle - Proud DR Rockette S: 28JUL07, D'd: 29OCT09 http://tinyurl.com/27j9qo2