Hi Christa, really the only advice I can give you on this is pretty much what your doing. Remember what I said in an earlier post, we always want what we can't have, your H knows that you want him right now so he has no reason to come to you YET. Like my friend told me, he begged and all early, then he detached and did his own thing and found happiness again. He did not contact W at all, he said when he would call the kids he would only ask to speak to them, not have any small talk with her at all, he said when he went to the house to get the kids he would not go inside. It took her about 3 months to "wake up".
I know all sitch are different, they were in their late 20's, early 30's at this time. There was no other person in the mix on either side.
Keep doing what you are doing Christa, see what happens. Give him space although it sounds like you already are and give it a little longer and see if anything changes.
No golf this weekend, kids are with me, we have a weekend full of baseball games and practices.
