I think sometimes that they think those changes are not for real, that they are fake as a way to get them back. Until they see consistency, which I am sure your H has, then it becomes real but they have a hard time accepting/believing it.
I can tell you first hand that H said this time around was so much better at home vs. over a year ago when he tried for three weeks.
He even thanked me on Monday night for not calling him and yelling at him for leaving us again. I told him I had no intention of calling him at all. He was surprised.
Keep the faith and pray---things are happening behind the scenes that we do not see.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
