By the way, I didn't get the glowing "I love you" answer either when I asked my husband the same question. His answer for stopping the divorce and returning to the marriage was, "It's familiar."
Yes, I would have wanted something more romantic too, but in retrospect it wasn't such a bad reason. Familarity, being there, being dependable, believing in it.... that has value....
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
