Thanks, Liz, I think we're all awesome for having the courage, stamina and patience to DB after what our WAS have done to us.

It's been a tough week. OW is on the war path. She drinks, gets drunk, then won't stop calling him. Last night she wanted to talk to ME. Great. I did talk to her, but didn't say much. She apologized for causing so much grief. Said she told herself not to get mixed up with a M man but her pursued her (not sure I believe that entirely). She resumed her phone calls at 2 a.m!

Today is my H's b-day. I got him a GREAT gift - 12th row tickets to see James Taylor (who we both love). I was picking out a card and found one that was not overly sentimental but still talked about him being all I need or want in life, but ended with a cute sexual innuendo. I liked the ending but was hesitant about the rest of it. I put it back cause I thought it was too much for right now. But I found nothing else so I thought what the h3ll -- I went for it.