I just got another major guilt trip handed to me. STBXH make it clear once again how I hurt him so badly that he HAD to seek solace elsewhere. He says I meant everything to him, yet kicked him while he was down. WTH do I do with THAT???? *sigh*
Just tell him simply that the past is the past, we all have to move on with our lives and forget old hurts. Now he can be happy and you wish him well....
Then change the subject. Make a joke.
There is no arriving, ever. It is all a continual becoming.
