I think it's also a thought that people have who have never gone through this mess we're going through. I'm starting to understand that splitting up & moving on is best for H & I. However, I know for a fact that it will have a big impact on D4. Yes, she'll survive, but it will be hard on her.
The strangest thing in my sitch is that my stbxh HAS gone through this same thing as a child. He knows what it's like to be from a broken family with parents at each other's throats. Seems like you would try harder to avoid it for your own children. It just goes to show you what living in a dysfunctional family will do to a child. However, that fact DOES make me want to work even harder to make sure that I'm the stable parent in this...
Well.. one more month or so and I will be a free woman. I guess you just get to the point where you are ready to move up from your lowest low. I'm tired of living in limbo. I'm tired of walking on egg shells.
I just got another major guilt trip handed to me. STBXH make it clear once again how I hurt him so badly that he HAD to seek solace elsewhere. He says I meant everything to him, yet kicked him while he was down. WTH do I do with THAT???? *sigh*
