Still trying to be patient

[karen43]

I think today I am feeling just a tad more positive about my marriage, although I don't know why?!? At this point I guess I will just hang in there a month or two and see what happens, if things get better, worse, or stay the same.

I was reminding my H last night that I was going to switch doctors to in my town. The kid's current Dr. is an hour drive away and we usually have a 2 hour wait or they are too busy to see the kids and I'm tired of it. If I switch to my town, it's 5 minutes away, they are less busy & much less of a wait.

H emailed me last night: no need to switch drs. b/c you're going to move to (my town). I didn't respond b/c I didn't feel like getting into WW3 with him late at night, but I do plan to switch doctors next week since I am the one that takes them there 99% of the time, and I kind of don't understand why he thinks he will be making major life decisions for me when we divorce or after!!! I guess I have changed more than he realizes???!!!
Karen