I have not been around here in awhile, but I wanted to let everyone know that it is possible to pull your marriage back from the brink. We are a long way from healed but we are both pulling in the same direction.
I asked her recently why she decided to come home? She told me that I had held on for so long and seemed so sure that it could work, that she began to think she was making a mistake. Now that is obviously not the glowing "I love you" answer I had dreamed of hearing, but it did help me to understand that the hard part is just begining.
I wanted you all to know that it can work!
Thanks so much for posting this! Just the last day or 2 I have been having a hard time getting motivated to try to hang in there with the marriage. Your story is so inspirational and something I needed to hear! Thanks again! Karen
Karen