Patty,

Tell us what you need from us here.

What can we do to support you?

I know you are spinning and are not sure what to do.

You have heard many different opinions.

You need to do what makes you feel at peace, whether or not "everyone" agrees with you or not.

We are all here for you, just tell us what you want.

(((((((((((hugs)))))))))))

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.