Yes h4h, she said our M is over and now she is going to try with this guy - and she wants to spend the night with him - she said is not about the sex - is about seeing how it is "being together" - My C said she is doing this to numb her feelings from the INCREDIBLE and irresponsible things she is doing to her family - unfortunately for her, those feelings are going to come back soon and 10 times stronger because of the extra damage she is creating. I don't think I am going to be there for her at that point. What is shocking me is how relaxed she seems to be about this - she often says - what do you expect that I was going to be single forever? - She tells me that she "looked around" at work, she found somebody available and now she is going to try with this guy - BUT LOVE IS NOT LIKE GOING TO THE GROCERY!!!! It doesn't work this way. You cannot just look around and pick a guy "random", and I don't even think it is what happened anyway. I don't know what to believe - it seems to me she has been abducted by aliens - it is the most rational explanation. Now anyway I'll try not to think about it - I am going in self-preservation mode.
