Thanks Christa, I am doing much better, I am learning how to detach and not worry about every little thing that has been eating at me the last 4.5 months. I find myself in a much better state of mind.

Thanks for posting above, I really appreciate it.

Have you had any contact from H yet?

I talked to a coworker today that went through this years ago, he said after he detached and stopped calling and trying to get his W back that she started calling him and wanting to work out R after about 3 months. He did all of the begging and pleading at first then stopped after about a month, that is when she decided to come around. The only time they had contact in this time was when he called to speak to the kids or when he would go to her house and pick them up or drop them off.

Keep us posted on any updates.


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