Tough Love through a Letter-Advice needed

[Nutty Chick]

Hi Tipper.

So glad you are feeling better, and wow what a cool job.

It sounds like your husband is in some kind of cycle. I mention this cos I have found the same thing with my H for years.

We would get on well, he would seem to sabotage the relationship, we would talk about splitting up and then he would pull out all the stops to get me back. When he had won me back … we would get on well and so the cycle would start again.

When I actually spent some time thinking about it… I realised that what was happening was that my H was actually enjoying the thrill of the chase. (winning me back) We would then spend a few weeks blissfully in the ‘honeymoon period’ before he got bored again and caused some drama which resulted in us to arguing and talking about splitting up.

Can you relate to this at all?

Nutty.