Hey Swashy, I can't wait. I really need the break. I just want to goof off and have a good time with you guys.
I'll be out your way sooner or later bighands, we'll have to get together then. Glad to hear your latest news.
Hey Exile, I'm definitely going to get out there before the summer is over.
Update.... The stbx is really pushing the envelope here lately. I dropped off my Son last night around 8 pm (we went fishing). She came to the door wearing a black mini slip sleeper with some sexy lace along the bust line. Kind of like a teddy, but different. Anyway, it wasn't her usual sleepwear, I've never seen it before, and it was only 8:00 PM. She invited me in, but I had to decline. I was meeting some friends for some drinks. She was defiantly setting the snare, but I avoided it. I just hope I can do it in the future. I'm weak sometimes in that regard. I don't want to give her the impression she can control me or get what she wants via seduction. I still can’t read her intentions, but I get the feeling they are not sincere and are motivated by some selfish desire.
You know what, Tom?
Two can play at that game. Next time you're there, wear a thong.
Maybe tom should ask ehr where she got it because he thinks it will look really good on the new girlfriend!!!!
Actually, I did picture it for a brief moment...
Ok, Ok, I get the point... Maybe I was being a little over dramatic, but damn there's noting like the smell of gunpowder and the sight of lingerie to stimulate your senses. Thanks for understanding everyone!
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
Well, it's very strange, but my stbx is now back with her 1st H after 20 years of D. Apparently, he has been pursuing her for the last 2 years when he heard we had split up. She finally gave him the nod after the OM was turned down for parol and I passed on her attempt at reconciliation. Of course, he doesn't know he's third in the line up behind the inmate and myself, but that's not my concern.
She's been surprisingly honest about this one to me and I'm not sure why. Even to the point she made sure I knew she had sex with him even though I was not interested in knowing that. The way she talks about him leads me to believe he's a temporarily fix for her until OM's parole comes up in another 2 years. I asked her if he knew about OM #1 and she angrily told me no and that there was no reason for him to know. I actually feel sorry for the both of them if their relationship survives the next two years. She may hurt this OM #2 like she did me when OM #1 comes back into the picture. I really think this guy would walk through fire for her, so I do feel sorry for him in a strange sort of way.
I'm not sure why I care to journal accept for the fact that my situation is so incredibly unbelievable. I don't think the most creative story writer could come up with something like this. First comes OM #1 from 15 years ago who happens to be in prison for murder and then comes OM #2 (Husband #1) from 20 years ago. Talk about your walk down memory lane! What's next, her elementary school crush?
As for myself, I'm doing well and really enjoying new experiences in my life. Making many new friends and having fun with my two Sons.
"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare." -Mark Twain
