Hopefulll, my H left of his own free will, but if I were in your shoes I would probably tell her she needed to leave and then start LRT.

I'm not very good at DB'ing, but FWIW, thats what I would do. She has chosen this path and its is apparent that for the time being she is bent on it so let her do her thing while you get yourself together and do some more stuff to make you feel good. Do you know that you want it to work or what is your goal for this R?

M:39
H:39
K:S14;D8
T:22yr
M:15yrs
S:12/28/07 EA/PA
3/14/08 OW preg
11/17/08 born
12/12/08 his
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Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option