However, this morning he called to check with me about our schedule later in the day, as something has come up that he wants to do, so that's a little step - at least he remembered that I exist and might like to know that he'll be out this evening.
I was out last night (my book club) and so I'm a bit fuzzy this morning from too much wine and not enough sleep. Regardless, I'd best get to work - someone get a whip out
Little steps are important. I tend to get impatient and ignore those, but they do mean something.
So, Day 7 for me of doing "nothing." Last night, my H again went to bed without asking any questions about my day or showing any affection. I felt the urge to hug and be hugged at one point but didn't act on it for fear of being pushed away.I ended up crying in the livingroom. Today, I'm feeling a little better.
Maybe next week I'll start a post here somewhere. I wonder if only one person of a couple can piece? I suppose anything is possible.
I'm so glad you got out last night and had a good time! It is important to take care of ourselves. I'm trying to get better about that too.
