Ok, I can understand the "turn ugly" scenario. So do you have a short term plan. I know she is moving out in May. Will it be wait and see, keep the door open, hope she wakes up out of lala land? I ask becasue i don't have a plan...I am leaning toward filing but i am afraid that any chance WE have would be out the window. However, another part of me says, protect yourself and get the hell out.