This is harder than anything I have ever done in my life and sometimes I feel so detached that I wonder if I do want it then other times I feel so passionate about saving my marriage- does any-one else question themselves ?
It is isn't it? The hardest thing, God I hope it is the hardest thing cause otherwise, if something is harder I think I'll be surviving it missing body parts or loved ones.
Your dettachment works for you AND against him. You found it, you found what others here seek so long and hard for, and now that you have it, you aren't sure you want it. It's your armor. It allows you to be you, it is your control of the situation. The LBS Always had the power, it was always the LBS choice and you have discovered that.
That you are still passionate about your marriage, even just at times means you still want it. So keep control, set the boundaries and live your life.
You will have a choice to make, and that is if YOU want him, the way he is, back. Or if you can wait for him to get out of MLC...on his own. Or maybe later if you move on.
It is all your choice now.: ) Congrats.
BTW, good to see you again Irish.
Last edited by Jack_Three_Beans; 04/25/0805:33 PM.
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