i spoke with him couple times on the phone last week - i was cutting conversations as short as possible and keeping them about things that needed to be solved - finances, etc.. he wanted to meet. when i asked him if there were any urgent issues or anything that can't be discuss by email he said "no". i told him that i do not want be anyone's second choice. ( actually i wish i read what imLIN wrote before i spoke w/h :"I am done playing your foolish game...actually each time you yank me around it makes me a little more done then before...I told you that until you know WHO you want to be with I don't want to talk to you...if you choose OW then I will be the mother of your children and that it IT!...If you choose me well then YOU have some work to do to win me back but if OW pops up just once....that is the last nail in the casket...now if you don't mind I would like you to respect my privacy and leave me alone to heal." - it is exactly what i wanted to relate to him). he said i am not a second choice and that he is not involved w/ow now. (well, he said the week before that he was still talking to her). i didn't even bother to comment on that, i said that he wanted to have some time for himself and i do not want to interfere with his decision.
i have not heard from him since monday.
me, h - 40+ m-20+ s, d, ss - 20+ s, ow, pa since 04.2007 h back and forth 01.2008 - 05.2008 h decided to be w/ow 05.13.2008 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1415899&page=1&fpart=1
