Thanks again to everyone that has replied to this thread. I am attempting to keep my head up and do what I feel is best for me and for my kids.
She continues to stay away from the house and spend late days at work and also not come home a couple nights a week. It seems she has befriended a younger single girl at work and it seems some of her friends habits have appealed to my wife. She is acting a lot like a 22 year old single woman right now.
My family is celebrating Easter this Saturday ( a little late...I know ) and she has decided she does not want to go. It makes me sad, but more for the kids than myself. I really just don't understand the decisions she is making lately.