Continuing Forward--Beth's 3rd thread

[AliSuddenly]

Hey Beth...well,between 28-30 we go through our Saturn Return (google it) and its all about maturing, leaving behind the last 14 years of your development and learning and stepping into a new future. Often it coincides with finally being a grown up, getting a career, or that first rung on the ladder, buying a house, getting M and having kids, or... leaving a long term R in order to grow. Reading your sitch, I often thought that I could see that this had to happen in order for you to have the life you deserve, for you, as you say. Saturn is about hard lessons and tough life stages and about growing, maturing and finding oneself. Whats happening now is a necessary process, hard though it is. So I dont chastise you for dating! I think you need to do what you need to do to survive this transition period in your life and it remains to be seen, as you say, if your H can get to grips with his issues and grow as a man. Good luck to you!

Ali xxx
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Me: 37 BF: 34 T: 9 years
IDLYA: 2 Nov 07
Own flat: 26 Jan 08
Depression confirmed: 4 Mar