Originally Posted By: MichelleLT
There is still an element of uncertainty to it because you DON'T know for sure that he is at the library the whole time - however, that is your problem to deal with as there is absolutely nothing he can say to convince you it is true.

This is the problem I am having Sara. I don't know what it will take for me to start believing H. I guess transparency, but I feel like I will still doubt him. I have ordered the book "Not Just Friends" which I am hoping will help me work through those feelings. I will let you know how it is. Time also plays a big part in regaining trust.

His actions seem to be pretty good over the last week or so. Maybe you could initiate spending more time with him and see how he reacts to that? I do think that you have proven that standing up for yourself is something that works for you..so keep that in mind.


Kris