I got no-fault papers in November. She cannot get a no-fault without me signing in my state, so she is a bit stuck. Having said that, I have told her things I wanted/need to be changed and she has not contacted or done anything about it in say 5 months. She last brought it up 1st of the month. Prior to that was February. It's like a monthly thing...5D schedule sparks it. Her approach to bringing up negative R stuff is changing too...5 months ago, it was like I want this D when are you signing, last month why are we prolonging with no mention of D word, and last night ring bothering her. Still no mention of me getting my stuff in last 3 months. Who knows...sometimes I wonder if I should take ring off, get my stuff, and show her "move on". Then I think what good will it do, this isn't some sort of movie role. It's not what I want. So, then I revert to being patient and consistent in the things that are getting some results...mostly just leaving her alone, do for 5D and I, working on GAL, 180's for me, etc...
she isn't angry anymore. that is good, I hear her sweet voice, laugh, smile on her face...small steps...
