Just Honest..

[cat03]

stbx won't budge on some points, I let go because it wans't worth the pain nor the time. Would he agreed to half of 300? hope it is all resolved soon hon

I convinced myself H wouldnt be with OW anymore. He is. I just need to give up.

Oh, this hurts, but it is for the best, I've stopped torturing myself with thoughts of what when where stbx is with ow, it's enough he chose her, and I dont' want to waste precious time thinking of a man who doens't think of me. Hugs))))))))))))

[Upside]

(((kiki)))
I just want to say that the real fool is your H for all that he has done to you and your D. What did you do that was so foolish?...love...have committment...have compassion...have hope. If you are a fool, I wish there were a lot more fools in the world.

<3
Upside

[Lissie]

sometimes i think I am a fool. A fool for thinking he can and will change.

You are such a dork.

How can you be a fool?

Because God gave you a beautiful and forgiving heart? Are you a fool b/c you know the man you married was not this awful man he has become.

B/c if that makes you a fool. Then move over b/c I will be the biggest fool of the group.

I just need to give up.

I have pet peeves with certain words now. And "give up" is one of them.

When you are ready, to move forward. You will know it. It will happen. It will come over you, in a way, that there is no doubt.

That is not giving up. That is moving forward with your life.

Kiki. I am sorry for the way he treats you. I am sorry that he has become such a pr#ck.

It hurts my heart to see my friends, after so long, still hurt over all of this mess.

Leave him alone. Let him be.

((((((((((((Kiki)))))))))))

Sorry sugar.

I do believe that it will get better. Even if he opens up to you or not.

You will not have this feeling of rejection, by him.

That will get better. I promise you. In time.

[kikifree]

Hey Jeanette..Im so glad to hear from you. how the heck are ya?

I let myself feel something I put behind me. i guess ill just keep moving forward.

D7 immediately said" She didnt stay with us moomy..she had to go..she didnt stay at daddys house...

Oh well..sometimes i wish D7 didnt tel me what they did.

I wish i could be like him at times.

i wish i could be so shut down to reality. but i cant . I have a soul.

This morning when he dropped her of fhe wa slooking around..as if looking for me. He was in the parking lot and actually spotted me. i could see him staring..WHY??????

Oh well, this is just a bump that i have passed. Onward...

Grace,
You are so nice to me.You are always right behind supporting me.

No we are never done, i guess...

Cat03, Hi girl. i do not want to keep fighting over money but what can I do?

It will all get better!

[kikifree]

Oh Lissie,

You come in and say the right words.

Thank you.

it is a feeling of rejection. After 17 yrs the man I loved is noone to me. It is hard facing reality.


I will leave him alone.

It HAS been so long and I can't understand why I feel this way still. But I do.

You give me hope with your words that this too will pass.

(((HUGS)))) and God Bless you!!!

[kikifree]

Upside,

You gitls are so heartwarming. You are right. Love..commitment..hope...compassion, doesn't make anyone a fool.

Thank you , Upside.

(((hugs)))

You ladies are a blessing!!!

[Jeanette1120]

Kiki

I am doing fine Thank You for asking!!

I filed a Contempt of Court motion against him yesterday. He will be served next week.

I am tired.

I am done.

But I am ok !

[ShadesofGrey]

I have pet peeves with certain words now. And "give up" is one of them.

When you are ready, to move forward. You will know it. It will happen. It will come over you, in a way, that there is no doubt.

That is not giving up. That is moving forward with your life.

Lissie is spot on. (as usual )

You will get there in your own time. I used to torture myself with the what & where's of XH & ow. Now I honestly don't care and don't want to know. I have learned to focus on MY life not HIS. It is sooooo much nicer this way.

Hope you have a happy Friday.

Love,
Shades

[cat03]

Yes, It will get better, it is just hard to see that now))))))))))))))))))

[kikifree]

Hi Shades and Cat,

Yes it will get better ..I am stuck again.
I have stayed off the boards because I am not in a good place.

I can't get over the fact it has been almost three years of all this.

I just can't believe OW is still inthe pic. Last week he startd bringing her around D7 again.

I told him if that was how it is going to be , then I would like to meet her. He ignored my request.

I told him it is time we all work together to make D7's life the best it can be.

I told him I want to go to D7's karate clases and see his place...he said he did not have a problem with that.

I might as well deal with reality.

My happiness does not depend on H, but H took a large chunk of my life that I truley blieved in.

I have everyone trying to set me up with all different kind of men. But I am not H. I am okay with being alone.

Just sometimes i want to be hugged...feel safe again.