Boy this is a tough one. I never thought I would ever consider taking my husband back if I had ever found out that there was an affair, but I did. Although I would hope that I would have never put up with it actively going on. Besides, I was so angry that he could be so selfish as to put my health at risk without my knowledge.
I don't understand but then again I've never been in that position, so I don't want to say anything bad about someone who is.