Point me in the right direction

[BryanS]

Started reading Gary Chapmans "Five Languages of Apology" and I would recommend it to anyone trying to forgive. I'm about halfway through it. It does a good job of elevating the power of the apology to it's appropriate place in a marriage. It has also helped me realize that W has tried an apology of sorts in her language, I just didn't hear it because it wasn't in mine. However, I don't think she could bring herself to say it in mine so there's still a sticking point there.